On a recent flight on Southwest Airlines, I came across a feature in their Spirit magazine. A book was just published called ‘Dear Me: A Letter to my Sixteen Year Old Self’, edited by Joseph Galliano, which is a collection of 75 different letters by a variety of different celebrities (actors, comedians, writers, etc) writing their own version of a letter to their sixteen year old selves. I have to admit, it caught my attention and made me remember all of those times I was young and told myself, ‘when I have kids, I will never do …..’. To this day, I have no idea what any of those things were, I just know that my eight, ten, twelve, sixteen year old self made a mental note.
I’ve always been a huge supporter of journaling and reflecting on my day-to-day life, not only to sort out the troubling times but also to keep those exciting, adrenaline rush memories alive. And, most importantly, to get to those ‘AHA!’ moments; because, if you write just to write, whatever you are feeling, without judgment, and with the expectation that not even you will be reading what ends up on the page, you WILL get an ‘AHA!’ moment.
The idea of writing a letter to your former teenage self is such a unique way to reflect on what was most likely a time of self doubt and self-absorption and reflect on all of the lessons you’ve learned since then.
So here is my version of ‘Dear Me: A Letter to my Sixteen Year Old Self’:
'Six Year Old Traci' - Read this in 10 years - it will be waiting for you!
Dear Traci,
You have curly hair! You have to stop fighting it and accept it. Yes, it may take you until you are 25 to be able to figure out how to style your hair, but you do finally figure it out, and everyone is jealous of your curls (you even learn how to blow it straight!). You will one day find your hair stylist soul mate who knows exactly what to do with your mane, and despite what you think now, a ‘wash and wear’ hairstyle that does not require any blow drying will never work for you.
It is okay if it doesn’t seem like you have found your clique of friends yet. Your best friendships are yet to come. You will have great friends in life. Friends that know exactly what cartoon bird video to put on to make you feel better, friends that you will stay up all night with for no reason at all except that the conversation never stops. Friends that encourage you to follow your passion and friends that encourage you to leave your comfort zone, but are protective enough to say, ‘make good choices’ before you embark on a new adventure.
You will discover that school and grades are not everything. Yes, you will have a fluke genius moment and get 100% on your first calculus test when you were sure that you had no idea what you were doing. (It was short-lived and lasted only for that one test). It is not so much what you are learning, but the work ethic that you learn from your dedication to school and extra curricular activities that keeps you moving forward and rising to the top; and, ultimately allows you to enjoy life to its fullest.
Don’t worry. You end up doing so much more than you ever thought you would. You do not take the traditional route that you think you are destined for. You discover a fork in the road that you did not even know existed, and for your willingness to take advantage of the opportunities that present themselves to you and your commitment to take a chance on the unknown, you are rewarded with a career filled with travel, excitement, and a sense of confidence in your abilities that will stay with you always. Trust your instincts because they have proven to be trustworthy and make sure you take risks, because they always seem to put you in the right place at the right time.
And boyfriends? It’s okay that you’ve only had one boyfriend back in 7th grade (there is another one in your future before you graduate). You are picky, and you don’t waste your time on crushes. You like who you like, and if you aren’t absolutely positive that you like him, it means that you don’t. Unfortunately, you will experience heartbreak but you will also experience a love and companionship that still surprises you. It’s supposed to be easy, and when you find the right person, it is. And guess what? He’s American!
Love Always,
28 year old Traci
28 Year Old Traci
I am so glad that I came across the excerpt from this collection of letters. Feeling a bit of writer’s block lately, this inspired me so much that I felt the need to take out my laptop and write this 35,000 ft in the air somewhere between Denver and LA. It’s nice to know that with all of the pop-culture, media-diluted content out there, that these pieces are finding their way to people and that a few words from the heart can still make such an impact.
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Ahhh, I’m gonna cry.
Yep, what Abigail said! Thanks so much for sharing this!
Me too that was so beautiful…I think I need to wait a few years…I was sixteen 3 years ago. I can’t wait, I hope it’ll be epic!!!
so i am among the 300+ folks who are commenting on this post! Let me tell you (again!): this is lovely. What a great idea. This is the second time I am reading your post. I am touched by your willingness to put this out there to the world to see. Thank you. You’ve encouraged me to do this in my own journal. Blessings, Lisa
So beautifully moving. Thanks for sharing this.
What a great idea! Loved your post.
I’m a high school teacher, and I love having my students write letters to their younger selves. They say hindsight is 20/20, but if we never stop and take a look back, we never benefit from that clarity of vision. I love your letter.
Thanks Emily! That’s a great idea for your students. A lot of people have said past teachers have also had them write letters to their future selves, to open at graduation, etc. It’s hard to stop and take the time to reflect sometimes.
I’m a high school English teacher, and you both are giving me great ideas for writing assignments for my students! Thanks for sharing this post! It’s beautifully written 😀
Rachel – would have LOVED to do this in high school, or been able to read a letter now that I wrote to myself then. Good luck with the assignments.
I think this is a great idea. It is a wonderful tool I am going to use with my coaching clients. I specialize in helping people increase their personal power and part of that is telling your past self it is okay to have gone through those experiences b/c they make us who we are and will become.
A letter to a past self seems like a perfect way to let go of old hurts and confidence robbers. I did an collage in 8th grade HomeEc that was pictures of things in my future. Mom gave it to me a couple of years ago and I cannot believe how many of the things on that piece of poster board have actually happened during the past 30 years! The power of our heart and mind combined is so amazing! And I was the girl with straight hair that always wanted curls. It only took me three perms to figure out that if I wanted nice looking curls I would have to do them as needed. (I just discovered THE MOST awesome!!! curling iron from Jose Eber that will curl MY straight as an arrow hair all day with NO PRODUCT required!!!) This is a well deserved Freshly Pressed!! Keep it up! 🙂 AmberLena
P.S. I too always took the untravelled ways, they seem so much more interesting and rewarding!
LOVE THIS!
(On a side note, I also LOVE that you read a Southwest Spirit magazine — I wrote an article for the November issue!)
Anyhow, I’ve got this on my “to-do” blog list as well. Ah, the perspective we’d all have if we could only hear from our future selves!
Fun post — congrats to you!
Mikalee
Thanks Mikalee! I always take the time to look through the Spirit magazine – and I’m glad I did this time too. Send me a link to the article you wrote for the November issue – I’d love to read it – congratulations!
Loved this! I spotlighted it on http://www.bleditor.com. Keep up the work and I might have to do the same 🙂
Thanks for the spotlight~
Thank you for writing. As I sit here thinking about my two sixteen year old daughters, I wonder how I am ever going to get them to take the time to read your beautiful essay.
Thank you! I haven’t read the ‘Dear Me’ book yet, but I’m hoping to get it in my stocking this year. It could be a great gift for your daughters and give you a conversation segue – just reading 2 – 3 of the letters that were featured inspired me to write this one to myself. I wonder what my 16 year old self would have thought of it…
Cool:)
There are several letters I’ve written to my future self. Maybe this time I should write something to my past self. Hahaha
Writing to your future self. Now THAT’S an interesting idea. I think I’m going to write all myselves!!! lol Seriously.
I think you’re on to something. Past, present, and future – all interesting letters to write.
One good tip: Include the goals you wish you have achieved at a certain age. When that time comes, read it again and it’s either you’d regret all the time you wasted or being so happy and grateful for actually achieving them. I hope it’s the latter, for both of us. Haha
This is beautiful.
A post that made you to take out your laptop and write it 35,000 ft in the air somewhere between Denver and LA, deserves a place in that Freshly pressed section for sure. Nice post. Liked it. Congrats to you.
Wow, that’s crazy! I’d have almost the convo with my 16 yr old self too! Curly hair acceptance, check; succeeding by ‘taking the path less traveled’, check; only boyfriends that matter, check!
Congrats with being happy with yourself at 28 and enjoy the journey forward!
Good luck to you too! Curly haired and taking the path less traveled!
The curly hair was totally me at sixteen. I got up, sat on the toilet, and straightened it every morning! Good job girl, this was awesome and such a good idea. I might have to take a break from work and do this. 🙂
This is a really great post. And you’re only 28… imagine what that letter will be like when you’re old like me (45!). Even more interesting that self-letters is confronting childhood experiences through your own children, trying to steer them away from your own mistakes, misunderstandings, and places of hurt while accepting that they need to make & navigate their own. Also, I can totally empathize with the ‘curly hair issue’! When I was coming of age, “hair products” beyond shampoo and conditioner didn’t even exist! Then came mousse… then gel…. finally, the right combination of leave-in conditioner and other potions to manage curls. My daughter has the advantage of a flat-iron (which I hate). Anyway, bravo!
Thanks for your comment Laura. A fine balance of moisturizing shampoo/conditioner, curling serum, roman oil and glossing cream. If only I’d known all this back then; however I was adamant that I wanted a wash and wear style, so I probably wouldn’t have touched the products! Thank goodness for diffusers!
I wash & wear now, but it wouldn’t be possible w/out Sebastian Potion 9. LOVE LOVE. Also, I recently learned to only use shampoo (no sulfates of any kind) 2x a week. The other days, I “wash” with conditioner only. Really helps with dryness. What glossing cream do you use?
I use the Fekkai Glossing Cream from Target, and sometimes I add some of Umberto Beverly Hills Roman Oil (also from Target).
Thanks for this; it was beautiful! I think I might even have to write one myself…
I don’t you’d ever have thought of writing something from 35K ft height!!
Height & flight scares some people, nice to some one getting inspired there.
Congratulations on being freshly pressed. That itself is another height!! 😉
you go girl…at 6, 16, and 28
Wonderful advice Traci.
Honey, curly hair rocks. Remember that always and know that women spend hundreds of dollars to get what nature has belssed us with. Rock it, rock it now and always, and I mean it.
Thanks Gail! I have definitely embraced the curls and make this mane my own!
I can totally relate about the curly hair. I still blowdry my hair straight on a daily basis, though. 🙂 Love this post!
*Sigh*…oh how I wish that I had curly hair. If I had that hair at 16, I would have been the happiest girl in the world! I guess we all want (at 16) what we can’t have (at 16).
I actually wrote a post a while ago called “Things I Would Tell My 17 Year Old Self”. I ended it saying that I would have punched my 17 year old self in my face for pulling all kinds of attitude on my grown-up self…
Clearly, my post was not nearly as lovely nor as eloquent as your beautiful letter! Congrats on being Freshly Pressed! 🙂
Thanks for sharing Christy. Send through a link to your “Things I would Tell My 17 Year Old Self”, I’d love to read it~
I needed this today, thank you so much! Sounds like your sixteen-year-old self has plenty to be proud of! 🙂
I’d say two things:
“Don’t expect validation or even understanding from ANYONE, and NEVER wait around for it.”
“Never, never, never, never give up. Everything takes more time that you think.”
For some people it works out. Others just get steamrollered. Go figure.
I so can relate! I too have naturally curly hair and it was so hard to figure it out as a teen. Really good post and congrats on being on the “freshly pressed” page of wordpress!
It is a surprising format of self-reflection indeed. Thanks for this post
Great idea!!
I loved reading this. It really does make you think back to your dreams and ideals in the future compared to now.
On an ADD note you are absolutely lovely! 🙂 Very, very pretty. ^,^
Lovely and inspiring. I am definitely going to write a letter. I wish that by telling her to use sun screen, she would listen!
I LOVED this. What a cool post and I was so enthralled with it. Thanks for sharing 🙂
This is creative – gonna spread the word about this now!
Thanks Ryan!
Lovely photos and words! Congratulations on being “Freshly Pressed”
I loved this 🙂 it’s so well written! I totally identify with the curly hair, too 🙂 I stopped fighting it, too.
I truly love AHA moments! This is a great little post gem that brought a smile to my face. I may become addicted, as I have with Oprah and OWN!! Keep blogging!
Thanks! Happy to be your new addiction. Those “AHA” moments are the best aren’t they.
I love the concept. Maybe I’ll try to write myself a letter as well =)
This is a wonderful post! So happy it was freshly pressed!
Your letter was wonderful and you turned out perfect! I wrote a letter to myself not that long ago and I’m way older than you. Phew, it was a real tear-jerker.
Val
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that was a nice post. beautiful pictures and the message was heartfelt and personal, yet something we can all relate with. thanks!
Love it! Love your writing! xo
This is a great piece. I have been thinking about a similar idea myself. I have recently written letters to my two little kids which I enjoyed very much…but I think it would be fun to talk to myself back then. Loved it!
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Wow I really loved this post being only 18 I’m always wondering if everything is going to work out and if I’m gonna be happy when I’m older and I’m always telling myself all these crazy things and to hear form someone in a letter to themselves like this it’s just really nice to hear. Thanks so much for this post.
Kayla
Kayla I’m so glad that you were able to read my letter. Although I can’t give anyone advice except to my younger self, I think it’s all about feeling comfortable with yourself, learning how to work hard and always striving to continually improve. That really made me keep moving forward and taking advantage of the different opportunities that came my way. Good luck with everything!
Your letter is so inspiring! Since I am still technically a teenager (though over 16), I always love hearing about what people would tell themselves if they could go back in time, since I am at that age they usually picture when they think of their younger self! I get to enjoy the live-and-learn, without having to do all the living first 🙂
The fact that you start you letter talking about being okay with curly hair really made me smile. I also have curly hair that I used to vehemently wish was straight, or at that I at least didn’t have to spend gobs of time fixing so it wouldn’t be a mass of frizz.
Though, since I’ve already figured out how to make my hair work for me, I guess my “don’t worry about your curls,” clause in a letter to self, would be for the 13yr me.
Great post! Loved it!
Thanks for stopping by! I’m glad you felt inspired by this letter – even though it was directed to my 16 year old self, it was a great experience to reflect on where I am now, and how different things turned out from how I expected them to be back then. It’s funny how small things can seem so important (ie. frizzy hair), but at the same time make such a big difference in how you see yourself (my hair stylist does say that your hair is the accessory that you wear every day!). So glad that you have discovered the secrets of curly hair early in life!
Inspiring post Traci. Well done on being “Freshly Pressed”
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i can’t wait to read this book and your letter was lovely! i recently wrote a blog that was a letter to my puzzle piece…aka, the love (or loves) of my life. now i’m inspired to write a letter to my 16 year old self…or maybe 14. could spare myself a couple years of poor choices 🙂 thanks for sharing!
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This was a lovely letter to read and a wonderful idea. Congrats on being freshly pressed!
Wonderful post!
What a fun writing activity, one that could really go a long way to help the writer put things in perspective and pay that knowledge forward to someone who is sixteen years old right now. I have a cousin who’s at that awkward age, and he doesn’t fit in with anyone. With this, I might be able to help him see we’re all in the same boat…no matter how “together” we might look to outsiders. Great post!
Thanks Jamie. It was a letter and a blog post that seemed to write itself, which makes it the best kind, because you know it comes from the heart. There have a been a few 16 – 18 year olds who have commented that they were happy they came across this letter because it was relevant to them. I hope you’re able to connect with your cousin, and that he’s open to your words. From what I’ve read of the original book, I would recommend it – I can’t wait to read all 75 letters and see what tidbits of wisdom and I learn from.
This spoke to me… Thank you for sharing.
What a phenomenal idea! I bet this was very therapeutic for you to write to your 16 year old self, as teens always have so many concerns about the little things and fears about the future. I think that another possibility is to do it in reverse and write a letter as your older self (older meaning 50 or 60) and reassure yourself of any fears that you may have about your future. Perhaps it could change the course of your life in pursuit of being the person that you want to be! Who knows…. 😉
This type of loving self-reflection is so important, and inspirational. Funny enough, I recently wrote similar (and of course different) sentiments to a younger me while in an airplane (nothing like being tens of thousands of feet in the air to gain some perspective). Beautifully done!
I like this a lot. It makes me want to do the same 🙂
It was amazing. Thanks for taking the trouble to post this “35,000 ft in the air somewhere between Denver and LA”. Thanks
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Love it. Eloquent, heartfelt, and resounding, great post!
Well done, Traci. I am the same age as you. It’s funny I could almost read along like I wrote parts of it. Glad you are over your writers block. Rock on.
Hey Lauren, glad you found it an easy read and could identify with my words.
This was a wonderful read.
This is so beautiful! I’m sixteen now, and its so relevant to me!
Suzy, I am so glad that you read my letter. I think we all wish we had the wisdom at sixteen that we end up having years later, and that we have the ability to help our younger selves through some of the tough, uncertain times. Good luck with your teen years – enjoy them, but remember that it’s just a matter of time and you’ll grow out of the awkward stages too.
I love your letter. In the 6th grade my teacher made us all right letters to ourselves for our high school graduation. She had our addresses and mailed them to us. My friends that I still had sat with me as we read them remembering the day we wrote them in class together. It was amazing. I now write a letter to myself about every 5 years to read 5 years later. It is really, really neat.
Brilliant! I wish I had written a letter to my future self when I was sixteen, too.. I remember my mom pulled out a letter I had written myself back in 2nd grade about our future. I wanted to be a cat.. go figure.
I too probably wished I was a cat in grade 2 (I love cats….still do). Funny story!
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this was great. my letter will be rolling out later today…and the wisdom in the comments that followed are just as helpful. ❤
Did you write this letter to yourself on paper? If you did, why didn’t you show it? It would have moved me a lot more than the computer version of it.
This was amazing! I sure hope I can say the same thing someday when I am older..especially about styling my hair ahaha.
I was thinking of this exact thing today while driving. I would love to write letters to my 16, 21, 28 and 31 year old self! Congratulations on being Freshly Pressed. Your writing is beautiful.
This is so beautiful and very sentimental! Thanks for the share 🙂
We all need to write this letter 🙂
Wonderful letter…I loved reading this! I did the opposite and in 8th grade wrote a letter to myself to open at age 30. 5 years to go! I wrote another letter to myself when I graduated from college (to also open at age 30). I am looking forward to what my younger self has in store for me 🙂
Lauren – I’m excited for you! I can’t wait for you to read your letters at 30. I may just write a couple letters to my future self as well.
I did something very similar to myself. I thought it was a really great way to show and remind myself of important life lessons that I’ve learned and how much I’ve grown.
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I posted a little link to this…
because it gave me the inspiration/courage… whatever you’d like to call it…
to write one of my own, although I’m struggling to remember what I ate breakfast… so i knew i’d have no hope of delving into the mind of a six year old me…
i decided to go with eleven. ;]
plus it’s my lucky number.
Loved your post. :]
Ryan I’m so glad that you were inspired to write a letter to yourself. Whatever time in your life you write to (past or future), it’s a great exercise that allows you to reflect on where you are now. Look forward to reading your post to your 11 year old self.
Aww this has almost made me tear up! Great post!
Saw this on Freshly Pressed and really enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing!
You’ve inspired me to do the same, but I might write to my 18 year old self. I have lots of advice to give to her!
I’ve written several letters to my future self over the years. I remember doing it because it was an assignment in elementary school, and then again in my adult years because it was advised to do so in a writer’s handbook (wish I could remember which one). The recent letters were emailed to me one year after writing them and were meant as a way to inspire and encourage my future self to keep writing.
Thanks for the great post!
I liked your post! As I read it, I was thinking about what I would say to myself at 16. Feeling inspired to write…
Thanks!
Thanks. After reading your post. I sat on the bed and flashes of my teenage life appeared in-front of me like a big screen movie. It was so funny that as we get older we forget about the past…. Well, I can still remember how I look like and yes…. I hate my curly hair and the fact that I am not attractive to boys of my age then as I’m much a bigger build….. …
Well, I’m going to write a letter to myself tonight.
It’s a really great post. 🙂
It’s funny what can trigger those flashbacks. Good luck with your letter Pearlene!
great post!
beautiful post.. loved it!
This post is beautiful, it makes me happy to think that things that at a moment in life were so concerning with hindsight they turn out to be not so serious, like the boyfriend situation or being accepted by friends (this one especially made me smile), and the curly hair, yes I finally accept it and actually miss my curly hair from when I was sixteen. Carry on writing, all the best for your future self 🙂
Transitions in life are usually marked by big events-the birthdays, graduations, and the wedding. But sometimes, the greater transitions come out of the smaller moments when we look back and see how far we’ve come and then we see how far we still have to go.
I loved your letter, I thought it was funny and so cute.
-Madeleine
So true Madeleine. Thanks for reading!
Thank you so much for this. It was very encouraging to this 16 year old!
Glad you stopped by Becca and hopefully you can take some of the lessons learned that I wish I had known at 16.
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Traci- I found this post on the front page of wordpress and I’m so glad I did! I too have been having some writers block and this was the best remedy I could have asked for. Thank you!
Glad you found this post. The article definitely helped with my writer’s block – the letter and post pretty much wrote itself.
This is absolutely a gorgeous write-up! I’m going to write to my sixteen-year-old self soon! 🙂
Great story. Thanks for sharing. I love AHA moments!
Love it. That letter definately spoke to the 16 yo version of me. I am 29 and still dont know how to style my curly hair. My favourite part that really hit home was “You like who you like, and if you aren’t absolutely positive that you like him, it means that you don’t”. I swear you stole some chapters from my life. Great blog, keep it up. Definately need to write to my sixteen year old self.
Thanks so much! Glad you could identify with my stories. Just goes to show that no matter how much we think that we’re the only ones going through these things at 16….well, we’re all in the same boat. Good luck with your letter.
stumbled upon this but it’s lovely xx
i just turned 25 and i’ve been thinking way too much about what has been happening for the last 10 years.thank you for this letter.it just made my day 🙂
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That’s so sweet. I remember being 16, in the 70’s:)
Traci – this is so cute! I kind of copied the idea to write my own letter to my 16-year-old self after a friend posted this on facebook.
OOh my gosh!! this is so emotional, it brought tears to my eyes.. wooww.. thanks for sharing..
Thanks for commenting abichica. I’m glad you were so moved.
Great post. Make’s you think for a moment how you were back then…
Great post! Thanks for sharing. I turned 50 this summer, which caused me to contemplate my life thus far. It was good to review all the different eras of my life. Know this: It keeps getting better! Cheers, Denise
Thanks! Cheers to being 50 Denise, and all the wisdom and experience you have to share!
Hi Traci. I’m new to your blog, but really enjoyed this post. You’ve inspired me to do one of my own! Thank you. 🙂
This note was awesome!
Awesome! 🙂
I don’t want to write 16 year old me a letter. That jerk thought she knew everything. She probably wouldn’t even read it.
Great post. 🙂
I love this. I’ll definitely add this to my to do list. 🙂
At 16, and now at 24, I’m still waiting for the giant billboard telling me what to do with my life. It’s a good reminder to think about how much I’ve learned along the way and how much further I have to go. Thanks for the reminder and congrats on being Freshly Pressed!
That was so lovely and touching
this is lovely ❤
this is a great post. you have inspired me to write my own letter. thanks for the inspiration!
love it!
i can relate to some of your sentiments in this post. 🙂
I’ve seen that very book in Hallmark stores and often pick it up to read where I left off last time I was in the store. I should just buy the book to fully embrace how wonderful the book is for the reader, but I haven’t. I loved how you did this for yourself and am considering blogging about this too. Thank you for the inspiration!
Haha. Funny Rachal. I can’t wait to go through the whole book of letters. It’s funny how varied they are – from ‘you’re a punk, smarten up, you know-it-all’ to ‘be gentle with yourself and accept who you are and you’ll be fine’.
And I’m so glad I came across this post. There’s nothing great than to recollect your childhood past.
This is really interesting. I think I’m going to try it 🙂
Congrats on being freshly pressed!
I was just strolling along wordpress and came across yours. I’m glad I did and I loved your letter. It’s come across my mind a few times in the past years to do the same thing although I’ve never gone around to doing it — but now I think I will!
Have you ever heard of futureme.org? It’s where you can send emails to your future self. I’ve done it a few times, it’s fun and encouraging to get letters from your past and see what obstacles you thought you could never get through, yet did.
Thanks Melody. And thanks for telling me about futureme.org, I’ll definitely check it out. Good luck with your letter!
I like this post. It’s very interesting.
Warm greeting from Indonesia …..
I’ve been inspired! Articles like this are what we should read in this media- distraught and pop culture dictated society. hmmmm..thanks for this!
have a great day!
Thanks!
ahh so moving. When I was 16 I wished I had a letter from my future self. The question is now do I write one? And if so, how do I get it to myself…? 😉 Thanks for sharing.
Oh, I loved reading this! 🙂 I think I might share it with a few friends… 🙂 Congrats on being freshly pressed! 🙂
Great idea!
Beats writing New Year’s resolutions. 😉
Hello Traci,
This was a joy to read. I too believe journalling and self-reflection are daily essentials. I’ve been using FutureMe (futureme.org) for the longest time now. Having emails sent to your future self has helped remind me of how I felt and reacted to various experiences that I would probably have forgotten with time (especially experiences that were particularly thrilling, or painful). Writing to the past must be quite a fulfilling task; shall give it a try soon.
Always remember to follow your own rhythm,
Ruth.
Hi Ruth, Thanks for your kind words. I just heard about futureme.org from another comment, and I am definitely going to try it out. It’s like opening up a box of notes/letters from your childhood and being able to remember things that, at the time felt like the most important thing in the world, but that you didn’t even remember happened. I’m going to make it a point to write some emails to my future self.
It sounds phony what I’m about to say, but your post was really heartwarming. I think I just might write one for my 16-year-old self tonight.
great idea, I could of used a letter to myself to reassure and motivate.
Wonderful post, if only those letters could time travel and just drop into our 16 year old hands. Imagine the help they would have been! Congrats on FP too 🙂
Thanks! It’s so true – imagine if we could have actually sent ourselves a letter – and if we actually listened to ourselves. I’m sure our parents, aunts/uncles, cousins, siblings tried to impart this wisdom on us…..but we shrugged it off, because really, they didn’t know what we were going through 🙂
You are right, I expect that if we had recieved the letter our first reaction would be to do the very opposite!
I love your hair, I am 40 and have only just begun to embrace the curl, still through gritted teeth though!
it reminds us to keep those dreams we had when we were young alive and that its okay to look back at the past and realise what we did not manage to accomplish and being honest with oneself.dnt knw bwt the curly hair tho gdluck
You are really pretty and I love your curls! 😀 It was very touching! 🙂
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What a good idea! I love the concept of talking to your past self like that. I feel quite inspired to do something similar, although as I’m only 18 it might have to be to a younger younger self to make the full impact.
When I was about 8, I had a dream in which I met my teenage self in a shop. It was a very strange dream and it stuck with me, although if I told you anything revealing came of it I’d be lying.
xxx
Really beautiful. I think I’ll write one to my future self to see if I turn out the way I think I’m going to. 🙂
This is such a wonderful letter to yourself. I often wondered what I would say to my 16 year old self to my currently 28 year old self. After reading yours, I think I would say similar things about friendships and education (but my fluke 100% score was actually in Biology which was short lived too!). I’ve subscribed 🙂
Haha – how is it that we can be geniuses for such a short time and then it just disappears. Glad you enjoyed the read Christine and thanks for subscribing.
love the post! so honest and written in such an easy style..
I especially connected with the idea of the path forking and encountering friends with whom you can spend entire night just talking and laughing!
great post:)
Such a good idea and what a great letter to send yourself. If only you could and you did, and subsequently wrote another letter, how different would that be.. my head hurts..
Great post and congratulations on being Freshly Pressed 😀
That was lovely – and I hear you on the wash and wear hair!
Think I will hunt down that book of letters now 🙂
Love this! I might have to write one of these to myself!
Thanks for sharing…I love it!
This post is just beautiful. I think I’ll try to do the same thing. A friend’s little sister was recently in anguish over what major to choose in college. I wrote to her and realized that I wish I knew at 18 that it doesn’t really matter, and that everything can turn out ok no matter what you choose. I might do my next post about that. Thank you.
Good luck with your post. It’s amazing how much effect a heartfelt letter can have.
Lovely idea and it was beatiful to read. Actually, I really have to do this for the child I’ve been…
So cute! Now I want to do this :0) Congrats on being freshly pressed yesterday.
Really love your post (and your blog!)
Thanks Erin!
Neat. Writing is a powerful tool for personal reflection, but so few people use it for that purpose.
David Brooks did something similar with his “New York Times” column. He asked people over 70 to write letters reflecting on their lives. He then wrote a few columns pulling out the features of both successful and disappointed people. Many of the same themes emerge in his letters as in yours: having a close circle of friends is important; taking chances and following instincts can be rewarding; and that life is defined by eras and chapters rather than specific instances or events.
You can find David Brooks’s blog and letters by looking up “The Life Reports.”
That’s cool. I’ll take a look at the blog and letters. Thanks for sharing.
So beautiful words!! everyone should writte a letter to his younger himself… Yours was lovely, passionate and awesome! Congrats!
It’s a great idea. I’ve even seen therapists recommend it on Oprah so it must be true. : ) Nice post!
That’s a great excercise. I am going to use it for myself and a group of friends I have.
“You will discover that school and grades are not everything.”
This is so true. I have seen many with good grades but end up in a life of anonymity, and people with less stellar grades but still enjoy a prosperous life. I think the perfect match is grades + passion + compassion + social ability +ability to cooperate.
A charming and inspiring post Traci! Thank you 🙂
Loved this post! I found it to be such a brilliant idea – the thought of writing to your 16 year old self… reliving through all the thoughts, dreams, hopes, joys and sorrows that I lived through then…and realizing how I have changed in the past few years… 🙂 Definitely something I’ll be writing about in my blog! Great work! Loved the writing style and the way you express your thoughts! 🙂
As a fellow curly-haired girl, I’m still trying to figure out how to style my mop. Thanks for the inspiration of knowing it can be done. Sweet post!
That was an amazing post right there 🙂
This is so sweet!
Brilliant and inspiring
This is really interesting. I’m 17 and I just wrote a letter to my 47 year old self because I’ve got a copy of this book.
Awwww ❤ I love this :')
wow. I’ll be honest I skipped the rest and only read the letter but that was so emotional. I especially loved seeing you as a kid then the current pic at the end. I wish I could do that but im 15 so
But thank you for sharing.
Its funny where life can take us and how things change.
Never too early or too late to write. It is true how funny it is where life can take us and how things change – and how you can surprise yourself with how things turn out.
Oh, I love it! I may do that myself. I’m so glad I’ve grown up enough (in the last 2 years) to know better than what I would have written if I wrote this 2 years ago. I just think I would have listened but, it would be a short term realization until I kicked back into depression.
I’m so touched. I hope I could also write to my 16 year old me when I got 60.
That was so beautiful! :’)
Very nice statement. This was extremely thought provoking.
I suppose if I were to write a letter to my 16 year old self it would read “You will survive” because frankly in the house I grew up in that was problematic.
This is a great idea! A lot of middle schools do that now and it really makes you look back on life.
I absolutely love this piece and the reason you wrote it. I’ve been journaling since I was 13 and you do find AHA moments along the way. Wouldn’t it have been a wonderful, magical moment if your sixteen year old self could have opened this letter. Imagine the relief you would have felt knowing your hair becomes manageable, your hard work pays off, and that your destined for new adventures. Thank you for sharing this. What a lovely post to read this morning.
Thanks Jess. I probably would have missed out on a lot of AHA moments if I hadn’t spend so many hours journaling in the corner of a coffee shop, on a train or late at night. The best part about journaling is that, even if there’s no one else you can be truthful with, you can be truthful to yourself in your journal – and if you know that you’re holding back something you can call bullshit on yourself.
What a great letter! Your 16 year old self is very lucky!
Thank you! You have inspired me, too!
What a sweet letter you wrote to yourself. Such an inspiring idea. What I would write to my 6 year old self, whom I remember vehemently thinking I will “never become like one of them”!! (parents and family), that just to relax and enjoy the ride- you will become exactly like one of them…lol.
great post, I might have to do this myself
Love this! It made my day — what a heartfelt post.
At almost 34 I wish I could send a letter to a 28-year-old me!
Congratulations on being FP!!!
very nice! 🙂
CONGRATS on being FP! – YAY!!!
People LOVE this concept of literary time travel, don’t they? I’m not so usre I’m in support of it though; better to let life unfold than risk tampering with the end result. We are the sum of our experiences, after all.
Thank you so much. I love it. Will be doing the same on my blog.
Cheers!
Congrats on being Freshly Pressed! Great post. Can’t wait to check out the rest of your blog!
OMG. I am totally going to write a letter to myself from myself 10 years from now. In other words, I am 22 and gonna write my 22-year-old self a letter from my 32-year-old self. Because worrying is so pointless, and I still do it like a madwoman! But the things I worried about at 16 are already irrelevant, and it’s only been 6 years. Think how irrelevant I will see the things I worry about now in 10 years!
Truly inspiring. I can’t wait to write a letter to myself. thanks for sharing!
This is awesome. I have to pick up this book. I am going to write to young me and future me…God only knows what I can invent for my future:)
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Great post and how fitting that I’m also 28 and have naturally curly hair. I’ve been meaning to write a letter like this to my future self, so this was added inspiration! Awesome letter and so glad that you have been able to see and do all that you thought you would (and wouldn’t) and that you did meet an amazing American guy who honors and loves you for who you are!
Creative topic. Loved your letter.
This is an amazing post. Ive seen a few celebrities do this kind of thing, and the most memorable one was Pinks song, ‘a conversation with my thirteen year old self.’ Its good, as a 17 year old, trying to find herself, that it might just get better.
Thanks
Im gonna write a letter to myself too. Thank You for inspiring me!! God Bless!
I’m so touched! nice post…. like it so much… I will make my own letter to the younger me.. back when I was 10 years old. 🙂
you are beautiful.. 🙂
I love love LOVE this! I might steal this idea sometime. Wonderful letter to yourself.
I love it, were you inspired by this….
http://www.thatvideosite.com/video/dear_16yearold_me
This was a beautiful post! Like most 16 yr olds, I dealt with many of the same things you did (including the curly hair). If I had one wish, it would be that my two boys never had to deal with feelings of inadequacy or second guess themselves when they reach the awkward teen years. But seeing as everyone goes through it, I just hope that they end up in a place like you- content and happy with how things turned out. Beautiful insight and very inspiring!
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Loved your letter. I did the same in September… I wish I knew then what I knew now.
Including accepting my curly hair!
Julie
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I am sixteen years old, and I truly wish an older me would write the current me a letter, letting me know that it will all turn out great.
My favorite quote is by Oprah Winfrey. She said, “When I look into the future, it’s so bright, it burns my eyes.”
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Dear Traci,
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This is kind of creepy kdiocampo! I completely understand your ‘How I met your mother’ references (and I love that show) AND that is the exact bird video that cheers me up on a bad day! Maybe you are my potential new best friend? Although the bar is set pretty high already.
What a lovely post! Isn’t it wonderfully satisfying to realize how much & how little has mattered over the years in the grand scheme of things? I’ve been thinking about writing a letter to my younger self, too. You’re inspiring!
Congrats on being FP’D!
im really moved by your letter 🙂
I think on my 20th birthday, I’m going to write a letter to my 10 year old self, and then do it every 10 years. As well as write to my future self to see the way I’ve changed and if life turns out the way I expect.
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Fresh read, after a long long time.
Interesting reflections on High school life
Lovely post, great idea!
thank you for sharing this letter!
İts impressive!
awww… thanks for sharing! I just came across this after I wrote my blog, “When I was 17..” inspired by MTV when I was 17 and I can do this too! But maybe a different version! Thanks for sharing! It’s very emotionally touching & I love the way u wrote that letter to yourself!
P/S: I love that curly hair of yours!!! ❤
Xoxo;
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I absolutely love this… i’m going through almost all the same situations nowadays, but this is just.. sooo insprational. I guess all sixteen-year olds have theses days 🙂 . Jazakillah, Traci.
thanks for sharing. it really is inspiring. 🙂
very inspiring!
i had the same problem with the curly hair,
and i’m a guy
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What a great post! I think this would be really fun for me to do. I don’t know that I’d blog about it (because it might be too personal) but as a personal journal reflection, this is perfect. I love that you have so much insight into yourself. I admire that!
just wonder if life had rewind buttons… absolutely priceless, it will be:/
What a wonderful idea. I’m inspired now. 🙂
Peace & grace,
~Miro
This is an awesome idea! I now want to blog about it.
If only we could send letters back in time…
Hi Traci
I really enjoyed reading your post! Your writing style is easy to read, informative, and brings out your “depth.”
I especially love your comment to write–without judgment–in order to find those “Aha!” moments. I tend to overthink things, killing momentum and enthusiasm when it comes to writing.
Anyways, thanks for your insight. You’ve come a long way:)
I’m so borrowing this! LOVE it! I have a lot to warn my sixteen year old self about. Thank you for this!
I got so emotional reading this !!! I might have to do this myself it was very inspiring 😉
What a great idea! I can totally relate to the hair advice. 🙂
I’d tell my 16-year-old self to save all those concert t-shirts and clothes that go out of style, because someday they’ll be worth a bundle!!
Love, love, love this!!! Thanks so much for sharing, & congrats on being Freshly Pressed!
Thank you for this post – the concept of writing to a 16 year old me has really rung a bell across my consciousness and the picture that you posted first made me wonder if I could ask my daughter (6) if she had any thoughts on being 16 – what a wonderful gift that would be – Thanks again for the Inspiration!
this was a great idea 🙂 loved reading it.
This is fantastic! You have inspired me to write a letter to myself as well! Truly a moving idea. I gotta check out the book too.
I’d do this, only I AM 16, lol. I may just write a letter to my younger self, though. 🙂 Thanks for sharing, and congrats on the FP! 😀
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Nice!
Such a lovely post. All that stuff we suffered through at 16. If only we’d know the good stuff that was coming. I try to remember that now whenever I have hard times. I tell myself there’s good stuff coming and not to be so stressed.
That was touch and inspiring. I might try this as well! Great photographs too 🙂 Thanks for sharing.
Love your letter. I giggled to myself when you mentioned your struggle with curly hair. I too have curly hair and I remember hating it in my teenage years. You have me thinking that I may also want to write a letter to my 16-year-old self. I think she may learn a thing or two. 😉 Thanks for your blog post!
Traci, I truly love your post and your curly hair. I hope you don’t mind but I think I will write a letter to my 16-year-old self on my blog as well. Even though I can barely remember 16!
This is so beautiful… [:
This is great! I felt warm-hearted just reading your letter. I’ve written this type of letter to myself before too and it is a nice thing to look back on. If only we could actually communicate with our younger selves back when we were uncertain of things, lol.
Great post! It was sweet how you seemed to want to care for your younger self. : )
Congrats on being Freshly Pressed!
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I couldn’t possibly know what to write to my 16 year old self as I still think I’m 16. I think this realisation is going to trouble me all day. I’m nearing 30 and starting to feel the panic set in as I’ve not quite evolved as much as you have. Dear 16 year old self – please rewind. Interesting post and one I’m felt pondering.
Felicity Fox
I’m a college student right now going right through the bad grades and fluke genius moments (and the boyfriends and just about everything in your letter). Thanks for the inspiration Traci!
You’re welcome Lesly. Good luck with college. Definitely take time to enjoy it – it’s a time in life that you never can quite recreate.
Really upbeat and positive post.
I’ve always wanted to write one of these letters, but at 22, I think I need to let a few more years pass before I talk to my sixteen year old self 🙂
xoKxo
I just cried.
The best compliment you could give me. Thank you.
I really love this. I write myself a letter a week or so after my birthday every year, talking about what seems most important at the moment, what I’m struggling with, and my hopes for the next year. In a few years, I will write to my younger self, rather than the future me.
Great idea Amanda. Always a good idea to ‘check in’ with yourself once in a while.
Awesome letter. High Five for the Freshly Pressed!
my my ..this is so emotional..
I truly can relate myself to this honest and sweet letter of yours, in fact anyone can
this is so true that our priorities keep on changing with time.
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Actually did something similar to this for my daughter….and will do every seven years. To write a letter to her future self outlining what’s important to her now and what she thinks, likes, wants to be doing in seven years time…….
wow…………….brilliant idea……….and brilliantly put…loved your creative thoughts
Pretty sure my 16 year old self (and quite possibly my 22 year old current self) could have done with the curly hair message as well!
I haven’t even reached 15 yet but, I think this is so cool. I think I’ll do this after I’ve settled down. Bought a house, gotten married, had a kid or two.
Beautiful letter! I know about this book and some of the letters are very touching. I feel it will be time to write my own one soon 🙂
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Love this! Thank you for reminding me about that book… I had meant to check it out & forgot about it until I read this. Your letter is amazing 🙂 Now I want to do this too!!!!
I added you & hope you’ll do the same as I’m new to WordPress & still figuring all this out & only have like two friends on here so far. Hahaha!
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PS – What a beautiful picture! And you're right… your hair IS awesome curly!!!
Very Touching, I’m inspired to do my own version now. =)
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that was a life touching post, I love it, God bless you.
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I love how you wrote about finding your boyfriend. I think if more people were assured and confident that they’ll eventually find love, we’d all be happier and find our loves faster. Here’s to travelling!
I think I want to write a future letter for myself too. I just started to write again..Nice one Traci!
Isn’t it awesome when you find an inspirational piece of writing that cures writer’s block! Earlier this year I wrote a response to an old journal entry of mine.
Congrats on being Freshly Pressed!
Fabulous idea behind your post. It’s a great way of reflection at any age you choose to write your “Dear Me” letter to.
Also wonderful idea to write a future “Dear Me” letter, not for goal setting necessarily but on the perspective of spiritual & self-fulfillment. I’m afraid if you write something goal-setting & don’t accomplish those goals then it would not be a great read.
Or what about a reflection for someone else & their impact on your life? Grandparents, special friends? Have it printed & bound. It would be a memory to cherish & one they can read over & over.
Warm and fuzzy feelings! Loved it! Thanks for posting (o;
Thank you so much for sharing. I don’t know you, but you have reached out to me with this. So thank you.
i really liked this post it was great to read. Really inspiring really. Made me want to get out some more and enjoy myself a little more than I have done lately. Great work and I look forward to hearing more from you
Mr Mary
This is a wonderful post. It moved me. I saw myself in it. It’s a good way to reflect on the blessings we have right now that we used to worry if we’d ever have them. It is also a reflection of how far you’ve gone in this life. You’re letter is wonderful. 🙂
This was so cute. I really enjoyed it! I just discovered your blog, and I’m really liking it so far! I’ll have to look around and read more.
Aww Traci, this is inspiring. And you wrote to sixteen-year-old self well. ❤
love the concept and perfectly framed…… Enjoyed!! 😀
That’s really cool 🙂 I think I shall try this!
I simply loved your idea, Its a great idea to reflect on ourselves…
Love this! I’ve always wanted to write one to myself and I know I will by the time I’m 30. I love the way you ended it, because I’m also dating someone ethnically different and I see myself ending my letter in the same way 😉
I remember looking at myself in the mirror when I was younger and telling myself not to worry, that it would get better. And you know what? It has 🙂 Thanks for your inspirational words.
Wow. What an amazing topic! What an amazing letter! The teens is such a tumultuous time when everything seems like life or death. , Unfortunately, only time will settle the dust.
I remember when I was 16… I wonder what my letter to my 16 year old self would be like? Maybe I should take the plunge and write one, in hopes of spreading this phenomenal idea!
Great post!
Nice flashback for our life. Good things will happened and bad things also, And these will too pass..
Loved it! Especially the first part about the hair; I have wavy hair and I’m still trying to figure out how to style it. Tried Everything!
Maybe I should write one as well just to calm the 16-years old me, I remember when I was 16…everything was seemed so…chaotic!
Great post!
Thank you so much for sharing! I’m only 18 so I’ll wait in a next 5 years or so before I get started on mine!
I’m only twenty years old. My sixteen is so close behide to me that I cann’t see it. I may wait my past get more older, wait my past be my past entirely.
Very nice post. I will remember this when I get ready to write my own letter to my 16-me.
I really liked this! Teenage awkwardness is endearing, in retrospect. I wish I could tell my 16 year old self that slutty does not equal sexy and I need to lay off the electric blue lycra halter necks. Your post was very charming.
Today I went on this random day trip with three people from my past…from when I was 16 years old, come to think of it…and our drive was a bit like your letter to yourself. We spent a long time talking about what we would tell our your selves if we could…and then I came home and wrote this….which, will definitely be a foundation for a future post of mine. GREAT stuff….Thanks.
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It can actually be very therapeutic to write a letter to your past self. It almost heals the inner child within when you give them credit for being the person they were. I really enjoyed this post. I think I will write a few letters to myself since it has been a few years since I have done this exercise. Nicely written!
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Wonderful concept. I must say i loved reading the letter….At many instances of reading it it kept striking me how simple yet so much engaging this can be.
Now im happy i stumbeled on to this blog…!! Lovely…!!!
I feel that I would have to write a very different sounding letter. Great topic for a post. Cheers.
This is awesome. I think I am going to be a copy-cat and do the same. I shall post a link here when I get to it.
Such a unique thought. I wish I could send a letter to my 16-year-old-self.
Nice post!
Dear 28 year old Traci,
I found your article well rounded and I was impressed with all the “inside scoop” you allowed your 16 year old self to know. Life always has a way at surprising us. Intact, even six months ago, I wouldn’t have even realized that my first children’s book would be published on Feb 29, 2012 ( if you wanna peek go to http://www.PeteThePopcorn.com).
I really appreciate you posting your letter !!!
I sincerely hope you can write your younger self for many decades to come!!!
Nick
a very interesting post – a very creative letter – thanks for sharing
david in maine USA
Oh, how I loveddd this! It’s so weird because I recently wrote a poem which I intended to write to my childhood self..it was very therapeutic. Check it out!
http://randysorensen.wordpress.com/2011/12/11/stay-strong-my-dear/
I hope you like it!
This is wonderful 🙂
Thank you. x
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Great post and great idea, although mine would be a lot shorter.
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wow. really powerful from the very first line! 🙂
“these pieces are finding their way to people and that a few words from the heart can still make such an impact.” – yes indeed.
and yeah, i used to dream of having curly hair when i was little. hihi. never came to pass. lol.
I like this idea. As a near sixty, I’m eager to think about what I would tell my 16-year-old self. You’ve inspired me.
I really like this post. I have to build up the courage to write my 16 year old self a letter. I like how gentle you were towards her/you. There has to be oxygen in that.
great idea. i may mull over what i’d say to myself and do a post like this!
This is great! I am gonna write a letter to myself right this moment 🙂
Loved your post! I am an activity director in a senior care facility and I am going to make this an activity in January for my residents. I know they will enjoy it as much as myself!
This is awesome. I feel nostalgic over my own 16-year-old self. Thanks for doing this. 🙂
great idea! pure joy!
Such an inspiring post! I’m going to do the same 🙂 Thanks for the great idea!
A great idea indeed! Thanks so much for sharing your letter with us… very inspiring!
Very inspiring. nice post.
I’ve done letters to my future self : once for a creative writing class and once for a camp. My camp letter is being mailed to me in six months. I haven’t gone into the past like you though.
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You know there was a moment when I was around five or six, I was walking to school, it was a beautiful day – lots of blue I recall – and I remember feeling kinda bumbed out by being so young. I think I just hated school. I remember spending a bit of time dreaming about what I would look like, how mature I would be, or how many toys I would have? James, if you’re reading this…. 21 56 25 65 85 45 (December 31, 2010) – buy a lotto ticket!
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That’s really sweet, no doubt any person can get inspiration from your blog! It’s really well written too!
Amazing letter to yourself! So beautifully written…I can understand why you chose that particular fork in the road. My wife and I recently made a huge decision in our lives and packed everything we could and moved from Toronto to Madrid (one more check off the old dream list)…Keep up the amazing work and keep following your intuition! Your inspiring…that´s a priceless asset that you will always have, no matter what 😉
Toronto to Madrid!? Wow Joey, that sounds so exciting. I’m sure the move will pay off with some pretty exciting adventures (plus you can’t beat the weather – a little different than the -20C in Toronto in the winter). Thanks for your nice comment and good luck to you and your wife!
dear Traci, i’m from Indonesia, and i found this post when i opened WordPress. I have blog for two years, and the last few days (er.. week.. or month i think..) i have writer’s block. And when i find this post, i just say to my self: i’ll do the same…
thanks for sharing Traci…
well.. i share your post in twitter 😀
Well said 28 year old Traci, and well done 16 year old Traci also.
WOW.. u wrote it in a flying plane, somewhere 35,000 ft high,.. hmm,.. you should have also mentioned it in the letter that you shall be actually writing a letter to yourself sometime after a decade,.. and in an airplane!! the 16 yrs traci would have been so excited to learn that,.. 😉
Really great blog post! Thanks for sharing. Oh, and thanks for telling me about that book… I’m going to have to get it now!
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This is such a great idea! Oh the things I would tell my 16 year old self! I guess mostly I would say “hang in there… there’s more. But it does eventually get better”. Thanks for posting this. =)
I love it, it was like nothing I have ever read,it was a reminder of why I fell in love with writing.
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Wow this is a beautiful post! Great letter… and awesome idea for even thinking about writing to your 16-yr-old self! 🙂 I so love how you encourage yourself and all… it suddenly makes me feel better… because I’m 16 too right now so… Thanks for sharing!
I was 16 three years ago (almost!), and even though I’m going to wait a little while to do this, I think I’m going to write one to my older self… kinda like a time capsule thing….
But beautiful post and I love your hair!!
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~Fyre
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Amazing writing piece. Thank you so much for sharing.
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Such a valuable exercise – so good to reflect and see what we’ve learned, even though we sometimes wish we could have learned it earlier. Thanks for this 🙂
thanks for sharing this. beautifully written and very inspiring. 🙂
Made me think how I was during my 16’s… And yeah, I’ve got my own hairstyle now. 🙂
Great work. :’-)
Thanks, Traci. What a great idea. My letter to my sixteen year old self would be largely one of reassurance for the trials ahead. Yes, you will survive them and emerge a stronger person, just hang on in there, buddy!
Ha, I write letters like that all the time but mine aren’t as nicely put as your’s, if I had to describe this post with one word it would be: INSPIRING (yes in capitals, because while I may be able to say it in one word doesn’t mean I want to and this makes it more… um, right? I can’t think of the right word at the moment but I know what I meant :))
“INSPIRING”. Thank you Lindacee. I was inspired to write it so I’m glad that I could pass on the inspiration!
I read some extracts from the same book in the Guardian newspaper magazine on a train recently on the way to Brighton. I found it incredibly inspiring also. Beautiful letter to yourself, really lovely way for me to start the day 🙂
This was so entertaining to read, and since I’m 17 years I’m curious about how my letter is going to look like when I “grow up”. So inspiring and I’m definitely glad I came across your blog:-)
This impacted more than you know. I have just started my blogging venture and am trying to build.
You speak to a place in our souls we seldom tap into, or if we do we are scared to reveal for fear of ridicule or being ignored. I applaud your willingness to put something out there that has meat. bravo!
Thanks for taking the time to read my post Cindy, and for your kind words. It’s been three years since I started mine and it can definitely become a staple in your life. Good luck with your blog!
Wow! Thank you! I always wanted to write on my blog something like that. Can I take a fragment of your post to my blog?
Once I originally commented I clicked the -Notify me when new comments are added- checkbox and now every time a comment is added I get four emails with the same comment. Is there any way you can remove me from that service? Thanks!
hey slim coffee. You should be able to go into your comments subscriptions on your dashboard and opt out of the ‘notify for new comments’ tab. Unfortunately I can’t do anything on my side. Good luck!
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Nice post!
Can we use couple paragraphes for our site http://yeahiloveit.com ?
Thanks! Sure you can use some excerpts from the post – just trackback/link back to my site.
I finally wrote my own version of the letter! 🙂
Great fremdenscham! I wonder if your 16 year old self would have believed you if you told her how much travel to the US you would be doing in your future. Nice letter.
Enjoyed reading through this, very good stuff, thanks . “All things are difficult before they are easy.” by John Norley.
Oh, that was great to read! 😀
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I loved reading your letter Traci… I thought about doing this after I heard about the book, but quickly forgot about it. You’ve inspired me to pen my own Letter to Myself.
By the way, your hair is beautiful!
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Talk about deja vu! I recently read the same article in the same magazine on a Southwest flight from Los Angeles to Denver. Maybe we even picked up the same magazine! I’m currently sixteen and you’re absolutely inspirational 🙂
Thanks Annie! That is a pretty cool coincidence – same flight path, just reverse! Glad you came across my post and enjoyed it!
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As soon as i read this a started to write a letter to my younger self too.Thank you so much for the idea!
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I am going to write a letter for my self when I was 12 years old
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Cute
21-year-old Ray
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